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1.      Discuss the proper attitude toward marriage as shown in the Bible. (Prov. 5:15-17; see Eph. 5:31-33; Heb. 13:4)

Eph. 5 [31] "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh."* [32] This is a profound mystery-but I am talking about Christ and the church. [33] However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. Heb.13 [4] Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

31 为这个缘故，人要离开父母，与妻子连合，二人成为一体。32 这是极大的奥秘，但我是指着基督和教会说的。33 然而你们各人都当爱妻子，如同爱自己一样。妻子也当敬重她的丈夫。 4 婚姻，人人都当尊重，床也不可污秽。因为苟合行淫的人神必要审判。

Eph. 5 [5] For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person-such a man is an idolater-has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.*

5 因为你们确实的知道，无论是淫乱的，是污秽的，是有贪心的，在基督和神的国里，都是无分的。有贪心的，就与拜偶像的一样。

Ps.119 [9] b Beth How can a young man keep his way pure? By living according to your word. [10] I seek you with all my heart; do not let me stray from your commands. [11] I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you. 1 Cor. 6[18] Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. 2 Tim. 2[22] Flee the evil desires of youth, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart.

9 少年人用什么洁净他的行为呢？是要遵行你的话。10 我一心寻求了你。求你不要叫我偏离你的命令。11 我将你的话藏在心里，免得我得罪你。 「18」你们要逃避淫行。人所犯的，无论什么罪，都在身子以外；惟有行淫的，是得罪自己的身子。 22 你要逃避少年的私欲，同那清心祷告主的人追求公义，信德，仁爱，和平。

1 Cor. 5[11] But now I am writing you that you must not associate with anyone who calls himself a brother but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or a slanderer, a drunkard or a swindler. With such a man do not even eat. [12] What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? [13] God will judge those outside. "Expel the wicked man from among you."*

「11」但如今我写信给你们说：若有称为弟兄是行淫乱的，或贪婪的，或拜偶像的，或辱骂的，或醉酒的，或勒索的，这样的人不可与他相交，就是与他吃饭都不可。「12」因为审判教外的人与我何干？教内的人岂不是你们审判的吗？「13」至于外人，有　神审判他们。你们应当把那恶人从你们中间赶出去。

【Pro5:1】  My son, pay attention to my wisdom, listen well to my words of insight,
我儿，要留心我智慧的话语，侧耳听我聪明的言词。
【Pro5:2】  that you may maintain discretion and your lips may preserve knowledge.
为要使你谨守谋略，嘴唇保存知识。
【Pro5:3】  For the lips of an adulteress drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil;
因为淫妇的嘴滴下蜂蜜，她的口比油更滑。
【Pro5:4】  but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword.
至终却苦似茵陈，快如两刃的刀。
【Pro5:5】  Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave.
她的脚，下入死地。她脚步，踏住阴间。
【Pro5:6】  She gives no thought to the way of life; her paths are crooked, but she knows it not.
以致她找不着生命平坦的道。她的路变迁不定，自己还不知道。
【Pro5:7】  Now then, my sons, listen to me; do not turn aside from what I say.
众子阿，现在要听从我，不可离弃我口中的话。
【Pro5:8】  Keep to a path far from her, do not go near the door of her house,
你所行的道要离她远，不可就近她的房门。
【Pro5:9】  lest you give your best strength to others and your years to one who is cruel,
恐怕将你的尊荣给别人，将你的岁月给残忍的人。
【Pro5:10】 lest strangers feast on your wealth and your toil enrich another man's house.
恐怕外人满得你的力量，你劳碌得来的，归入外人的家。
【Pro5:11】 At the end of your life you will groan, when your flesh and body are spent.
终久你皮肉和身体消毁，你就悲叹，
【Pro5:12】 You will say, 'How I hated discipline! How my heart spurned correction!
说，我怎么恨恶训诲，心中藐视责备，
【Pro5:13】 I would not obey my teachers or listen to my instructors.
也不听从我师傅的话，又不侧耳听那教训我的人。
【Pro5:14】 I have come to the brink of utter ruin in the midst of the whole assembly.'
我在圣会里，几乎落在诸般恶中。
【Pro5:15】 Drink water from your own cistern, running water from your own well.
你要喝自己池中的水，饮自己井里的活水。
【Pro5:16】 Should your springs overflow in the streets, your streams of water in the public squares?
你的泉源岂可涨溢在外。你的河水岂可流在街上。
【Pro5:17】 Let them be yours alone, never to be shared with strangers.
惟独归你一人，不可与外人同用。
【Pro5:18】 May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.
要使你的泉源蒙福。要喜悦你幼年所娶的妻。
【Pro5:19】 A loving doe, a graceful deer- may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be captivated by her love.
她如可爱的？？鹿，可喜的母鹿。愿她的胸怀，使你时时知足。她的爱情，使你常常恋慕。
【Pro5:20】 Why be captivated, my son, by an adulteress? Why embrace the bosom of another man's wife?
我儿，你为何恋慕淫妇，为何抱外女的胸怀。
【Pro5:21】 For a man's ways are in full view of the Lord , and he examines all his paths.
因为人所行的道，都在耶和华眼前。他也修平人一切的路。
【Pro5:22】 The evil deeds of a wicked man ensnare him; the cords of his sin hold him fast.
恶人必被自己的罪孽捉住。他必被自己的罪恶如绳索缠绕。
【Pro5:23】 He will die for lack of discipline, led astray by his own great folly.
他因不受训诲，就必死亡。又因愚昧过甚，必走差了路。